Missing a historic moment…

I’ve been moved and inspired by the protests of thousands of Californians over the passage of Prop 8 and the removal of basic civil rights from same-sex couples. The press, largely the gay media, is painting this event as something akin to Stonewall – an event that is just that historic, perhaps not on a national level, but historic nonetheless. Through my limited experience with the Fairness Campaign here in Louisville, and by working with other social justice groups in the area, I’ve found a physical passion for the praxis of academic theories I’ve garnered over the past few years. And while I stand in solidarity with my brothers and sisters in California, I feel a little left out of the movement. I wish I were there to help, to experience, to physically stand for a right that is mine, one that was never a possibility here in Kentucky.

Metzke, writing for the Advocate states:

It’s become bigger than me — and bigger than each of you reading this. It’s about us now. As a community. Not pointing fingers, not even necessarily about a piece of legislation called Prop. 8 anymore.

I mean, sure, when Californians spoke, it hurt…deeply. But I don’t know that the outcome of a no vote would have done our community any favors. I’ve never seen this kind of passion at a pride festival. I don’t expect that people take to the streets in quite the same way in memory of Stonewall.

People are pissed off, riled up, letting their guard down and showing that when faced with discrimination, if they have to choose between equal rights and a rum and diet Coke, they may fill up a flask — but they’ll march.

The community is united like never before, and I, for the first time in a long time, am thrilled to be a card-carrying member. I’ve been out and proud before, but never like this.

I feel like I’m missing out, that I’m in the wrong part of the country.  That sentiment coupled with my possible move to Santa Barbara in a year just makes it bitter sweet.  What will it be like a year from now?  The marriage ban may be overturned by then, but what about the rest of the country?

Fairness has been working on a State Wide Fairness bill, which they hope to pass in the next decade.  Yet this bill, to my knowledge, does not include anything about marriage.  Moreover, I think the political landscape of Kentucky will have to change considerably before any state law protecting LGBT peoples will pass.

I long for a sense of community, and while Louisville has a gay community, it seems to be a disagrregate group, rather than one that can stand in solidarity around any one issue in the community.

Read the full Metzke article here on Advocate.com.

~ by alacrity1123 on November 11, 2008.

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